Fed up with the standard dating apps? Being normal is boring! On FET we're all kinky and unapologetically open. Explore your kinks, join the Fetish & BDSM community and get ready for dates out of this world!

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Unleash Your True Self

Come as you are. Get your FET profile started! Upload a pic and share a bit about your kinky self, whether it's questions you have, BDSM experiences or fetish fantasies... Sky is the limit!

Find Kinksters Like You

FET is the fetish app with a 24/7 live chat, newsfeed, free messaging and image sharing. Searching, chatting and keeping in touch with fellow kinksters has never been simpler.

Date That Special Sub-one

There’s someone for everyone out there in the Fetish & BDSM scene - or just in here, on FET. The right kinksters for you at your fingertips. Start meeting them in just a few taps!


FET is about more than just Kink & BDSM contacts - WE'RE FAMILY! A great bunch of allies on your side while exploring the World of Fetish and enjoying a stellar time together. Join the kinky community. Host an alternative universe in your pocket.


#SSC: For added confidence and a #kinktastic community experience, everyone has the opportunity to verify their profile. Get your profile checked to show others that you're real & authentic, and not a bot - unless you have a thing for bots... You can also choose to sign up with your Facebook. Don’t worry, no one has to know but you!


Do it with an anonymous review, privately in a friendly convo, publicly over social media or directly via WhatsApp... Just invite the kinky superheroes you know. Word-of-mouth will help us break taboos together!


1. What is FET all about?

Still didn't get it? No probs... Here we go again: FET is just the start of a journey of self-discovery. We're all about helping you find out more about yourself, to connect you with likeminded people who share your kinks, and to let you live your lifestyle to the fullest.

2. How can I join the FET community?

Download FET for free. Sign up with a valid email address or with your Facebook account - none of your friends has to know unless you want them to know... Once you've clicked on the confirmation email, let the kinky fun begin!

3. Is FET free?

Joining FET is completely free. You can download the app, sign up for free and use all of our features at zero cost! 'Superpowers' that expand your limits, grant you more visibility, or provide you with additional info come with an affordable upgrade.

4. How safe is FET?

These are just three top measures: The profile verification is key. You can report any user or issue anytime - our support team in Berlin will take care of it. Our newsfeed moderation is run 24/7 by our Community Managers and volunteering FETmods.

5. Where can I use FET?

FET slides neatly into your lifestyle - 24/7! Use it on your smartphone or tablet wherever you are and whenever you want. It's only 10 MB, so you have plenty of space for other apps, pics, vids and music. We don't mind sharing... we love caring. ;)

6. Is FET available in my language?

We've already conquered the English and German speaking galaxies with over half a million registered members. We're hoping to replicate our flawless victory in Spanish, French, Swedish and Turkish speaking territories... This is horizon 2022: A FET Odyssey.

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Our vision is to be the world’s most trusted Fetish & BDSM community. A safe, sane and consensual home for kinksters and the kink-curious, that demystifies alternative life-styles and provides a user-friendly dating app.

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